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An Unexpected Bond With My Car

I have never been particularly fond of my car. My first car, a 2000-something Geo Prizm, was given to me by my aunt when I was 15 and lasted until I moved to New York City at 24.

It reliably got me through high school, college, and the first two years of my post-graduate life, despite receiving minimal care from me. When the power steering stopped working, a mechanic discovered that I had somehow damaged the steering column, causing all the power steering fluid to leak out.

I told him I would just drive it like that.

My current car, a 2014 Subaru Impreza, has received similar neglect and complaints. I drive it as infrequently as possible.

Author's summary: Developed unexpected bond with car despite neglect.

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Defector Defector — 2025-10-16